Tifffany Shlain and her husband Ken Goldstein are very much a couple who live the life of highly tech savvy Californians. She is an acclaimed filmmaker who co-founded the famous “Webby Awards” (the Oscars of the blogging world). He is a Professor of Robotics and an acclaimed digital artist who teaches at The University of California, Berkeley.
They have introduced into their lives (and the lives of their two daughters) a fascinating idea. Once a week on a Friday evening as the Sun sets until Saturday evening as the Sun sets (the traditional times set out in the Old Testament as the Jewish Shabbat), they switch of all electronic communication devices, laptops,tablets, cell phones and live without them for the day.
In the video above Tiffany explains the way that this action has allowed her family to catch up with each other, to talk, play and plan. She feels that we are bombarded every day with masses of information and that we need some sort of break in the routine.As non-religious Jews they felt that it made sense to use the Shabbat, the day of rest, as the obvious place to take their break from the invasion of information that was the basis of their life for the other six days of the week.
I was very taken with this idea and felt that it was something that many of us could consider trying. I am not proposing that we all follow the Shlain’s and use the Jewish Shabbat as the day. Any 24 hour period would be useful. It would surprise us how much time we have for rediscovering the joy of interacting with each other as well as the joy of small talk and catching up with personal news.
The Shlain’s look forward to the time that the Shabbat ends and they can get back to joining in the chaotic noise that constitutes our daily digital lives. The advantage though is that they feel rested from the assault to their senses and more able to play their full part in contributing to what Tiffany calls our global interdependence.
The link above is to a really heartwarming report on the CBS Evening News about a man, Chris Rosati, who has ALS otherwise known as “Lou Gehrig’s Disease”. Despite his illness, he has decided to live the rest of his life in a positive fashion and try and do good for others.
In this report he decided to see if the idea of “The Butterfly Effect”
could be used in the field of charitable giving. He went to a local restaurant and gave 50$ each to two young sisters with the request that they did something with it as an act of kindness.
Now this was an interesting experiment in more ways than one. It would of course be interesting to see what good cause the young girls chose to support. But there was of course the chance that they would have thought that this was their lucky day and gone off to the nearest shopping mall and spent it all on themselves!
In fact they did pass it on and Chris’ intentions were well used as you would see if you see the report. But this does raise the question of just how divided a society the U.S. is and indeed the rest of the so-called “First World”. There are those who genuinely want to help others and understand that they live a life of plenty whereas others (many in their own country) do not and then there are those who believe that society is every man for himself and that they are not “their brother’s keeper”.
I would think it a good experiment to distribute as many 50$ “gifts” as possible to as many young people as can be found and then track what was done with the cash. The “Butterfly Effect” can indeed work, but it needs the butterfly to flutter by and land on the leaf in the first place!
As a commentary on a significant historical event, I found Congressman John Lewis’ series of Tweets and photos about his recollection of the famous Selma March (see link above) very compelling reading.
I have always been interested in the Civil Rights Movement of the 60’s having seen the events from the safety of an armchair as a white boy living in a foreign land ( the U.K.).
Throughout my life I have continued to follow the “progress” of the fight for black people to get the chances to contribute to their society that Dr. Martin Luther King spoke so eloquently and emotionally about in his great speeches.
I have placed the word progress in the above-paragraph in inverted commas because a half century after the events of Selma, so little has changed for so many and there is an argument that things are getting worse.
The commentary on Selma is about the memory of a significant historical event but also helps us to see that Dr. King’s fight is not over and that more, much more still needs to be done if anything is to improve in the next 50 years!